This time of year is absolutely awe inspiring to me. As I
look out the kitchen window, I can see myriads of birds collecting all sorts of
materials in which to build warm and comfortable nests in expectation of new
broods of young ones. Those birds work many long hours every day for weeks just
to build nests that many of them will use only once for this happy occasion.
God has put an instinct within them that directs their well choreographed
movements as they meticulously gather just the right materials needed to create
the "perfect" home environment.
Too often I have seen birds work almost tirelessly on their
nests for weeks to only have them destroyed when powerfully destructive
storms came through. More times than not, the birds abandoned their damaged
nests to begin elsewhere because they realized that their compromised nests
could not be restored to their original condition.
It's amazing how watching those birds collect materials
brought back a flood of memories of times in Karen and my marriage when some
powerfully destructive storms came through that tried to tear our home apart.
The tragedy in all of this is that as the leader of our home, it was my
responsibility to protect my family but instead I allowed Satan to use me to
bring unhappiness into the familial home. What is most heart breaking about
this is the blessed marriage that God had designed for us was almost destroyed
by the person who was most responsible for protecting it. After the storms had passed, it almost seemed
like there was no hope, no way to put the broken pieces back together again.
Like the birds nests that had become compromised and unable to be restored to
their original condition, I felt our marriage had been damaged and was beyond
repair and I had nobody to blame but myself.
But...
Although by man's standards some things are beyond repair,
God has his own formula of super glue! If we are willing to submit our lives to
him, stop being disobedient and give him complete control, God does more than
restore our broken lives to their original condition. The new relationships he
makes for us, fashioned by His plan of restoration, is better than the
original. How is that possible? Well, as a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17 ,
KJV) we have been tested and declared a child of God—redeemed, justified,
sanctified and filled with the grace and love of Christ himself. When we have
been delivered from the bondage of sin, we have more to be thankful for and are
more appreciative of what we have. In our marriage, when I completely submitted
my life to God, my wife was willing to accept my apologies and was willing to
keep going. Although I am not perfect, through God's justification I received a
new standing of divinely given righteousness. In His sanctification, I received
the spiritual life of Christ that changed my character and conduct which has
made the journey so much better! As for our marriage, it is better than ever
and I adore the wife that God has so richly blessed me with.
Parting thought...
If you need to eat a little crow and don't have a good
recipe, I have a huge book that has several really good ones. I know, I have
tried many of them myself.
Aww... such good stuff! I so miss your FB posts! Great words to live by - I like your reference to the "huge book". It is so nice to see how God is working in your life. VTAG is blessed to have your family among us.
ReplyDeleteThank you Becca. I appreciate your taking the time to read my blog and respond. We feel blessed to be a part of the VTAG family and consider it an honor to be counted amongst your friends. Being off facebook has really helped me to stay more focused on things that I need to accomplish. Blogging allows me to do a little of what I enjoy.
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